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i am who i am. to know me is to love me.....i am trying to become the person god wants me to be.......

Wednesday, April 4, 2007

If I was a boy......

Ciara has this new song called "like a boy". It basically goes into what if a woman that was in a relationship did all the things that a man constantly gets away with on a daily basis,how would the man feel. It is always easy to play a role,which most women do. We give in to their demands and whatever they want. Then at the same time we get dogged out as they say.

I have always been one to be a Lil tomboyish....OK I'm lying i am straight up tomboyish. I wear men's clothes pretty much everyday. I mean it makes me feel comfortable. Now don't get me wrong I do wear dresses and skirts to but only when necessary. But back to the subject at hand....

Many times in relationships we fall victim to what we think is love. A lot of people go thru life and never know what real love is because we settle. The world has always had a view on what is perfect. What is perfect for the world may not always be perfect for you. I myself have been on both sides of the track. (i dated a girl once,no i am not gay,it was one time and i have not done it since). So I have been in both roles the male and female. I must say that women have their own tricks as well. Being in a relationship with a girl taught me alot about myself and my actions towards people. It's weird when your emotions can be seen thru another person. Many times when you are in a relationship a man will mask his feelings to keep his "masculine" side in tact. So you may honestly never know how he really feels. But with two women you are going to get full out emotion every time.

Women aren't good at masking their feelings. We let it all out! So what would you really do if you were a boy? A lot of women would sleep around just because they wouldn't be considered a hoe anymore. Some people just like sex ,but I still personally think it's nasty if a woman sleeps with like a 100 men . And personally I wouldn't want a guy that slept with a 100 girls either. But the world doesn't look down at the man. I don't know I think a lot of guys would change if women acted more like them. It would be pretty funny,lol.

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