Boys...will be Boys...I need a MAN

Ok so I went home this weekend and of course I had to see all my friends from high school. The Bff crew was in full effect. We didn't have our usual kick it moment because well everyone is grown now and has their own things going on. But we still try to see each other at least for a moment. So BFF came to the house and well we sat in the car and chatted for a minute. Of course I had Cd's for everybody lol. Anyway it was nice to see her and catch up because we don't talk much anymore and it's nice to know she hasn't completely turned her back on me,which made me happy.

Then their is the Sanders. he is my homeboy from back in the day. i think out of any of the males, I have the most fun with him. he always got something good to talk about lol. He and the roommate get along now which I am happy about. I didn't want that to become a problem. Anyways saw his new house for the first time . It is really nice. He is doing well for himself and I couldn't be happier for him. He is one of the people I miss most in Memphis. I really do.

Now to the one that is the topic of this post. A.D. He has made it a point to make our relationship all about sex for the last two weeks and this weekend was no exception. I don't know what is wrong with him but he wanted me to diss my company to go see him. This is not what I came here for and it is to why he didn't get to see me at all. He just kept pissing me off,sending funky texts and all that. Negro please! He said we slept together but honestly folks, I don't even remember it. That is not something you forget,especially when you see this person all the time. I'm like what the hell?? And that is all he seemed to want this weekend and I was a no go on that because I don't see him that way. I mean who forgets about the sex? If it was that bad that I forgot about it I definitely don't want to repeat it. So to you sir, don't text me again till you get your mind right.....moving along(vent over)

All in all the dudes are the same in Memphis. trying to be way more thuggish then they are. It is sad how men seem to get stuck in a label and don't know how to make their way out of it. One difference in my crew. Dressing nice is a must. How you present yourself means so much because for some people ,that is the only impression they get of you. So you better make it a good one!

Peace.