What Happens In the A,Stays in the A

What a hell of a weekend I had. One of my boys was graduating this weekend in Atlanta and well I couldn't miss it for the world! lol. We got there on Friday I was with Country D and Lil Sis. Had never been out of town with Lil Sis so I knew it was going to go down lol. As soon as we met up with everyone the drinking began lol. It was non stop all weekend. Now this was like the single retreat lol. No one was boo'd up except for like 2 people. So needless to say that hooking up was a option for some lol. We went to Dolce that Friday night and it was jammed pack. Of course I am the little picture taker so I was snapping away. We danced and grinded all night lol. It is so funny to dance with girl and a guy at the same time yet so much fun lol. Clearly by the way I was dressed the girls knew what was up lol. I got a couple of new facebook friends but that was about it . No numbers this night.

Saturday was the graduation. We went to bed at 5 and had to be right back up for graduation at 10. Talking about tired as hell! Anyway graduation was really nice. It was for a medical school so the parents of the graduates or whatever family member they picked got to hood them. It was really nice and I was proud of my friend. All that studying paid off. Then it was rest time and another night of party and drinking lol. We got back to the "meet spot". And well half of the room was already drunk when we got there, so we had to catch up . Country D and Lil Sis do way more drinking then I do. Especially Lil Sis. Her quote of the weekend "Don't Judge Me" lol. We went to an all Black affair Saturday and man it was packed again. The sweat started as soon as we walked thru the door lol. Yet again it was a night of fun. At one point Country D was dancing with a dude and she called me over to her. I don't think we have ever danced in public together like that. But then again we were away from home so you can kind of let loose ,when no one knows you lol.

Then about a hour later Lil Sis started getting down! When all eyes are on you in that type of party you are doing a lot lol. Now Lil Sis real sister is gay . And she has always been loving and understanding about it but it is not her thing. Well at the club she grabbed me and started dancing I was shocked! lol. Needless to say I didn't think anything of it it was just weird and not like her lol. I did dance or talk to this other chick but she wasn't talking about nothing . So i was dancing with our boys the rest of the night lol. Man it was a hell of a weekend. I would love to do it all over again but I don't have any more sick days at work hahahahahaha

KickBall,Beautiful Weather and B-days Part II

I got two random kisses which weren't bad lol. None of which from Carmen though. Oh well. I think we are better off as friends anyway. Not that I wouldn't want to smack it up flip it and rub it down. But I also don't want to deal with the other side of things that comes with that. Sex changes things and not always for the better. I would rather keep it simple and not have to worry. We have built a very good relationship and unlike all the other lesbian friends that I have had that have crashed and burned I would like to keep this one intact. I am going to take her out for dinner cus I promised it a long time ago once I got my job I would. So I have to keep that promise. But it won’t be on that level. Well after a evening of hunch punch, video making(the things i do with my camera) and gay boys doing everything under the sun, it was time to go home. Now I don't know if I ever mentioned it but me and Country D do actually still live together. It has been interesting to say the least, but not something I am ready to let go of. And neither is my head between her legs. As to where I ended my night. It was actually some of the best sex we have ever had. Not the best but it was a top 5 performance. All night long I couldn't help but notice how her titties looked in her dress. Hell for that matter everyone noticed.....She had put some baby oil on, so every time they hit a light they got more and more noticeable and I noticed with big eyes and hands that wanted to wrap them up like a subway sandwich.


When we got home I knew she was gone on the hunch punch. So she always gets extra aroused when she has been drinking. She wasn’t drunk but she was tipsy. She still knew everything she was doing. I was standing in her room watching her get out of her dress and in to her shorts. She didn’t put a shirt on. She knew what she was doing. She got into the bed and I followed to the side of it. As she layed there we continued to talk about the night. And as she talked my hand began to cup her breasts. My hand went from her breasts down to her stomach where I began to place small kisses all over. I took one breasts and engulfed it with my lips and tongue. She was wet by now and I began to make small circles around her navel and then I went further south. She wrapped her legs around me and I could hear and feel her moans with every touch. She asked me “did I still like it” and I said “ always”. Iw as going back and forth, left and right up and down. You would have thought I was sucking on a snow cone I was so into it. I love when I woman puts her hands on my head and tells me what she wants me to do. It turns me on so much. She had one of the best climax’s I had ever gotten out of her. I even bit and kissed her booty, as she giggled lol. Afterwards she said she had a lot of sexual tension built up. Don’t we all I was thinking. I kissed her goodnight and went into my room. We didn’t get into it again because she had to wake up early for work. I texted Carmen to make sure she had made it home ok and she did. She told me she had a great time and that she was going out with a friend on Saturday to have a fun filled day all over again. And I ended my night like I have been doing a lot lately, holding on to my pillow and my tiggie……. Sound asleep alone.


I was going to put up a few pics but until I can black out the faces I can’t do that lol.

KickBall,Beautiful Weather and B-days

Friday was definitely a good Friday. It is always nice to literally have time to stop and smell the flowers and that is what i am doing this weekend. no work , no extras just enjoying life. I went to my old campus yesterday and watched the deltas play kickball. It is amazing how something we once did as small children could still be fun now. It is nice in our still young lives to have a little fun. Having fun and smiling keeps you young. I remembered all the little moments during my college life. Those smiles and laughs that are still so fresh in my mind It made me smile again. Later on had dinner for my bff's birthday. Her boo did a great job of getting everyone together. I even got to spend some much needed time with my Carmen Sandiego. She has such a great personality. And she is sexy as hell. Not that I have ever tried anything but hell I am not blind either lol. We don't get to talk as much now as we once did because I am working now. So we did some catching up and just some overall chatting. There was a couple sitting across from us. This woman I will call tall trees and her stud I will call Jordan. Now tall trees for the last couple of weeks has been throwing hints that her relationship was not there anymore with Jordan.


But as I looked across the table she was wearing an engagement ring hhhhmmmm. Now just last week you were getting upset with me because we couldn't spend any time together. But all of a sudden now you are boo'd up for real. I hate when people try to bring me into their mess that I don't even know anything about. Glad I never answered that text back. Then we had the gay softball team. Which is always a blast. Gay boys and hunch punch is a party waiting to happen at any time lol. Now when we first got to the restaurant of course we had to clown because they messed up our seating. The manager tried to make everything right and they semi did. But instead of us all sitting at one big table we ended up in one big area at 2 different tables. Of course all the white people at one and the black people at one. Coincidence I think not. Now my bff's boo is white cus chocolate just don't work for her lol, and she and her mom(who i was surprised came) was at the table with us. Now my ex Country D was on one side of me and Carmen on the other. I felt at times that I was having to make sure my left and right side were both happy. Oh if I only knew what was to come later lol.


Of course we went back to bff's apartment for the after party. Now our other friend lips said that she wasn't going to be able to come. And of course this had all of us mad as hell cus we went to Atlanta for her and spent the night in the club with the "mullet" people. But she did show up in her surprise fashion. No one knew she was coming except for bff's boo. It was quite a surprise and made my bff happy. Then the party began. Next thing I know I see men flipping each other in the middle of the floor,kissing and slobbing each other down. (we no longer have to imagine what they do in their bedroom). I got not one but two lap dances. Good night for me. And I saw my ex Country D,try to make a move on Carmen, what the hell? We were all sitting on the couch and she asked Carmen to sit on her lap. She was making these faces behind her back like yea she working with something and damn she sexy. I was like this can't be happening again? The things people do once they get a little liquor in their system. Now Country D still proclaims that she is not a lesbian or bi,but as the years go by,her openness to the whole thing gets more and more intense. I think it is time to take off the shackles that bind us and let loose lol.


Part II coming.......

my top 10 wives

I got this from another blog I thought why not. It was hard to put these in order except for the first two. *sigh* they are my favs lol.

1. Janet Jackson- What I wouldn't do to be up close and personal with her Mickey and Minny Mouse tattoo. This pic is actually on my wall right now. Got it when I went to her concert. Been to everyone except the last one (dang recession).



2. Nia Long- Freshman year of college I watched love jones every night. I don't think I spent as much time watching the fresh prince of bell air until she started to date Will. She is so sophisticated and beautiful . I love love love her!



3. Lauren London-she has this ghetto appeal but i look at her dimples and just melt. I fell in love with her in ATL and love to see her in new projects.



4. Sanaa Latham-Who wouldn't love someone so smart,so funny,so versatile. She had me in love and basketball and even though she played a bad girl in the Tyler Perry Movie I still love her.



5.Kerry Washington-Loved her in She Hates Me and she stared and directed Common's video for I want you. Who wouldn't want her?



6. Rose Rollins-As soon as she became a member of the L word cast I was hooked. Fem or stud she is beautiful.



7.Gabrielle Union-When she bites her lip it drives me crazy! her facial expressions just do something to me,don't know what it is.



8. Keyshia Cole-She is a cutie. Everyone need a little thug in they life lol.



9. Keyshia Knight-Pulliam-When she was in the Chingy video with Jason Weaver I fell in love all over again.



10. Queen Latifah-She is the triple threat-actress,singer,rapper. I have always love her and had respect for her. Such a beautiful woman.

25 well 30 random things about me

Once you've been tagged, you are supposed to write a note with 25 random things, facts, habits, or goals about you. At the end, choose 25 people to be tagged. You have to tag the person who tagged you. If I tagged you, it's because I want to know more about you.

I actually did 30 it was hard to break everything down. But we will see if you learned anything new about me.

1. I don’t eat ribs and sweet potato pie (please don’t take my black card for this lol).
2. I don’t like Cherry anything but I love to drink Cherry Pepsi and Coke.
3. I am the youngest of 6 and my brother is pretty much old enough to be my dad lol.
4. I have a niece I have never met .
5. Like my friend Theo I am a geek. I have this thing for Archie comic books. I really have to stop myself from buying them sometimes. Been doing it since there was a Mega market to go to. (If you are from Memphis you know what I am talking about).I also collect basketball cards. Have quite a few of M.J.
6. I was raised by a KAPPA….no more needs to be said lol.
7. I play the Alto Sax and the Piano. Still working on those piano skills though.
8. I spend at least 10 hours if not more on the computer a day. Between work, school and blogging it really doesn’t seem that long when I am doing it. I have two different blogs and up to 5 email addresses. A lot I know.
9. I wear glasses. (Most people have never seen me in any).
10. I have at least one picture of every single person I graduated from high school with. (if anyone needs a slide-show for the reunion I gotcha lol)
11. I am the one my friends come to with their problems and issues. I am actually quite good at giving out words of encouragement.
12. I send over 3,000 texts a month if not more. I don’t like to talk on the phone. Texting is much better for me.
13. Most of my family calls me Nikki, Nicole is more of my first name then my actual first name lol.
14. I love wearing men’s ties and watches. (I get that from my dad).
15. My favorite movie all time is Love Jones, use to watch it almost every night my freshman year.
16. I use to teach Sunday school classes when I was younger.
17. Taking pictures is therapy for my mother’s death. Hit me up and I will tell you the story. I have enough pictures for over 5 scrapbooks if not more.
18. I love motorcycles but will never ride one because of the fear of getting hurt.
19. I met Jesse Jackson when the National Civil Rights Museum opened in Memphis. I fainted because I have fainting attacks and when I woke up he handed me Lemonade to drink lol.
20. I use LOL a lot when I type (as you can tell from these random things. (smile)
21. While working at the collegiate apartment complexes I saw some of the nastiest things I have seen in my life! And I can never look at those people the same again.
22. I have helped at least 4 friends not get evicted from their apartments ,I am such a good friend.(smile)
23. I love personal gifts, they mean much more then things that are brought from stores.
24. I love r&b and jazz. And I watch HGTV and the First 48 as much as I watch ESPN.
25. I have been thru way more in my life then I lot of people know but I have always learned to keep a smile on my face, because there is always someone out there that has been thru more than me. I use my life and examples to help others as best I can.
26. My mother was my everything and I miss her more and more as the years go by. So many times I wish she was here for me to talk to on this earth.
27. My sister is my biggest confidant.
28. I love my niece and nephew more then they will ever know because so much of me I can see in them.
29. I write poetry in my spare time and have been published twice.
30. This one is only for people that are close to me and they should already know what it is. If not shoot me a text to find out lol.(for all my blog readers im pretty sure you can guess what this one is and no ,no one asked me lol)

you don't listen,birthdays and a whole lot of booty

Have you ever had those moments in your life that are well just really random. my week as a whole was random. one of my friends b-day was this week and we went to her b-day dinner cus i told her i would try to make it to at least one event. it was fun however there was one person there i did not expect. my former crush skull dated a girl....we will call her b-ball.b-ball is really cute and well didn't treat skull the best. i never thought i would get close enough to b-ball to tell what type of person she is,but i must admit a good first impression was made. i tried to get to know her as just her because sometimes you really can't go off what other people say and i am glad that my prejudgment about her being this not so good person was wrong.

she turned out to be really cool and i am glad that i met her. a lot of the people at the dinner i did not know which would have been awkward except for the fact that well we all were silly. being around people that are a lot like you can make any situation easier. One girl who will call light eyes,was really cute and we had a lot of fun talking. she sat across from me at dinner. later on in our night this family came and sat by us. now any other time i would have thought that the conversation going on at our table would not have been appropriate for the ears of little ones(most of the table was full of lesbians). but one of the mothers was actually talking to us. her sister actually was gay and she was in awe of us. we weren't your typical looking bunch of "gay" girls. everyone was dressed nicely ,nice hair and manner able. we weren't overly loud or rambunctious or anything like that.


she came over to the table and just told us how she wished her sister could find a group of girls like us who had their heads on straight and were doing positive things with their lives. it made me feel good to be judged for the good things in my life and not just always the negative. anyway the birthday girl decided we were going to the club. the club is called play and of course it is a gay club. i wasn't too happy about going simply because there was going to be someone there i didn't want to see....c. now i haven't talked to c in a very long time for so many reasons. and well i just didn't want to see her. i felt hurt a little by her because she owes me a lot of money and well i tried to get some of it back since i lost my job to help make ends meet and she pretty much blew me off. i knew she was going to be there and i just wanted to leave the whole situation alone. of course birthday girl knows about the situation and tried to blow it into a major thing and i must admit i said some things i shouldn't have and i apologize for that. but i did see c,she spoke to me i spoke back and that was that. i didn't want to ruin either one of our nights and i just did what the bigger person would do and left it alone. not something i would have done in the past and especially not with some of the people that i was with.

anyway moving along i finally got to spend some time with my bff which i always love. and her girl came along. we didn't do anything special or out of the ordinary just a day of running errands and we went to get something to eat. i love spending time with them cus i can just be myself ,not being judged or anything. it is always fun for me and i enjoy it. we always have the funniest talks especially about the past experiences that me and my bff have had since we had met each other. tonight was the first night i let the girlfriend know about the first time i met her. i was like dang she got a big booty for a white girl,lol. it was so funny but yet so true. but she is a really sweet girl and they make each other very very happy.

ok and me and my boo had another fight. it seems like it is a on going struggle to make things work and i wonder everyday if this is good for either one of us. i want to be happy and i want boo to be happy but i am starting to wonder if being with each other is what will really make us happy. i am so confused and for once i don't know what to do.

well that is all for this week stay tuned for more fun!