Ok so i have this male friend for blog terms we will call him ladies love cool j. Me and him see we have been thru it all that two people can go thru without being married or having kids( we almost did but at the time abortion was right for me, if I could go back I would make other decisions) anyway. We after a long time of avoiding each other and getting on each others nerves,have gotten to a point where we can be around each other and just enjoy each other laugh joke the whole nine.
he called me tonight to tell me about this girl that he was talking to . Now when I first heard about her she was the one he had been waiting on. Or should I put it in the words he did "the one I should be with". Now Mr. lady loves has a problem. He craves attention. He has to get attention by more than one female at a time thus this causes the problems in his relationships. Anyway to make a long story short his birthday is coming up and well she wanted to do something for him. She wanted to take a trip in his honor but he was going to have to pay for half of course. Not my idea of a gift for me but whatever. Anyway she wanted to take him to a bed and breakfast. Now don't get me wrong that is a nice trip but nothing that he would want to do. And well that made her mad. I don't understand why people try to give gifts that they want when you are getting it for another person. That is not a gift for the person you are getting it for but a gift for yourself.
SO needless to say that they are not seeing eye to eye on the matter and I kept my opinion to a minimal cus I didn't want it coming back to bite me in the butt. But I did see his point of things. To many she still has a bit of growing up to do and needs to learn how to give and receive. On another sad note he told me he might be moving away and honestly it really did make me sad. I was liking the point we were at and I will feel like a very good friend is moving away. Well off to sleep now nighty nighty!!!!
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